I think when you’re transitioning from being a people pleaser into someone with more boundaries it can feel so weird – it's hard to tell if you’re being mean or if you’re actually just respecting your own feelings, because you’re so used to putting other people's feelings first.
What this Mason Greenwood case should tell you, as a man, that even if a woman has literal evidence showing her abuse, the system can still protect the perpetrator, because THE SYSTEM IS BROKEN. Believe women, & do what you can to protect women.