i love being out and seeing women’s nipples because it lets me know im not the only braless bitch here and i hope they all feel the same way when they see mine
You can be pro porn and anti misogyny. Is there a lot of misogyny in porn? Of course. It's a problem. I think there are so many important conversations to be had about porn and the ethical implications of how it's executed. However, simply saying "porn bad" does not solve the systemic issues reflected in porn, and every other type of media we consume.
I think this fear of porn, is resulting in a Neo-puritanism that says all sex that is not happening in missionary, between committed partners, is degrading to women. That's just not true.
This has also trickled into kink. Kink is not inherently degrading to women either. In fact, in a good sub/dom kink dynamic, the "sub" (maybe a woman, maybe not) is in full control. Boundaries, and limits are all discussed ahead of time, giving the submissive the opportunity to completely let go and trust the other party to operate within those boundaries. A lot of men watch kink content, with no conception of the consent involved, and then enact kink onto women that didn't ask for it. I can see how that would warp a person's view on it.
I just hope that in our pursuit of equity, and protections for women, we don't shut down sexuality altogether out of fear. Women are sexual beings. Women watch porn. Women make porn. Women love kink. You may not. That is okay. However, demonizing those spaces doesn't remove them. It only makes them less safe and more taboo. Bring it out into the light, and you can see it for all its parts. It's then up to us to decide what parts need replacing.
Okay. Bye.
White privilege doesn’t mean white people don’t struggle. It means whiteness itself isn’t the reason you’re struggling, and pretending those are the same thing is exactly how privilege protects itself.
girl who enjoys the thought of sex but is honestly quite scared to do it actually
Girl who wants to be completely used and owned by someone for their own pleasure with zero power or control but is also scared and just wants to be held
girl who is confusedd
Girl who is afraid
Can we PLEASE bring back cotton, colorful, comfortable clothes? Please. I’m so tired of the polyester, neutral, cropped shit. I want clothes that actually feel good and look like clothes. Bring back real clothes.
Unfortunately, I’m a very needy girlfriend but not like “buy me this”, “get me that” type. It’s more like hold me, kiss me, cuddle me, call me, give me all of your attention
Warning: The October Slide is coming. The barometric pressure will begin to drop. It can be terrible for people with chronic pain and chronic illnesses. It can affect seizures, POTS, fatigue, worse brain fog, migraines, full body aches, etc. Be prepared, and stay safe.