It’s been 45 days,18hrs,32mins & counting since I heard from Seni.
No word from him after our first & last good night.
Called & sent messages, but he’s left me on “read”… so I stopped reaching out, I never bothered again.
Is there any need to seek closure here? I’m confused
Swiping right on this app now seems like a part time job lately. The search for love in this generation is beginning to look like a joke!
A quick glance @ his profile & I knew trouble may be lurking around the corner for me but sometimes trouble is exciting, so I swiped right ➡️
Sophia I want you, my mind is made up. If this is a mistake, then it’ll be the best mistake of my life. If you want this as much as I do, then let’s walk the path together. I’m exhausted, I don’t want to lose you. You make me feel seen & @ peace.
I smiled & we called it a night
We went on to talk about family, work, random stuffs.. we were building a bond that feels irresistible already.
Quick look at the time, twas 1.45am already (early hours of Monday morning, a work day). We’ve been chatting for over 5hrs & it felt like 30mins.
I felt butterflies
Yea, we aren’t in the same country.. he’s in London, I’m in Lagos🥲
We proceeded to share more photos & videos of each other, damn Seni is just too cute..so this boy is mine now ehn - WAWU
He asked for my full names & he told me his, he merged our names together - twas PERFECT!
I just wasn’t in the mood to overthink anything. I’m acting on impulse now & I don’t care. I’ve been too guarded, careful & calculative in the past, what has it gotten me - NOTHING!
“Thank God I found you now, tired of the games&searching. I just might get a ticket & come over..
In his words “I want to be your best friend, hommie, lover & friend” & proceeded to send me a screenshot of what he’s saved my name as; HLF, meaning “Hommie Lover Friend” - I was stunned, someone wake me up already!
And then I proceeded to do same.. this was looking like a movie
We talked about EVERYTHING - from past hurts, relationships, what we’re hoping for in this season, what commitment meant to us, sex before marriage, work&finances, our priorities, the long distance - we literally talked about any&everything that’s enough to set the ball rolling..
The connection’s so intense.. we couldn’t help but think this meeting could be divinely orchestrated. Shey we always chant “What God cannot do,does not exist”..well here we are, experiencing the prophecy.
This week on NSPPD is all about asking GOD for a sign..could this be it?!
“Dear Sophia, it’s your friend here Seni”… excited much, & with a silly grin on my face, I replied “Hey Seni, good to have you on here”!
This has got to be the most swift, non-hesitant migration from the app to Whatsapp.
We were so giddy & everything was just happening so fast
Within 2hrs of chatting non-stop, he asked for my number so we could migrate off the app to direct calls & chat easy on WhatsApp.
I didn’t hesitate, no time to welcome any crazy thought against this request. I dropped my number ASAP!
Minutes later, a text drops on my WhatsApp…
Ping! Ping! Ping!
This was just 8.15pm.. Few messages dropped & yea twas from him.
In my head, “That was fast”..interesting!
We hit it off like the speed of light; the vibe was vibing, the gist was smooth, the banter was adrenaline pumping - everything was aligning perfectly.
At this point someone needs to wake Kola up from lalaland cos it seems he has established a relationship in his head with Dede😂😂😂#BBNaija10#BBNaijaS10#BBNajia
And Mr ChoChoCho has resumed his media rounds this morning… jesox, this guys voice is beginning to irritate me, talks tooooooooo much! #BBNaija#BBNaijaS10