It actually triggered me seeing women get bullied by other women over a man’s actions. Like it literally ignited a fire in me because why are woman getting ostracized because of a man’s behavior, while he doesn’t get the same treatment? Male centered women will stab you in the chest over a man.
People will closely watch you for years, be inspired by you, be intrigued by everything you say and do even if they don’t agree, they always use your thoughts as prompts for their own, then they turn around and act like they ain’t doing none of that and like they ain’t never seen you before. I really don’t resonate with people who heavily indulge in others then act blind and unphased to their influence.
I don’t start with people because when you do, you have to be prepared for the worst in retaliation. It may not happen overnight most likely when you least expect it.
it's not even just your abusive mother you had to deal with, it was all the other adults who knew they could mistreat you when she wasn't around cause they knew she wasn't gonna go out of her way to defend you
Women’s commitment to being dishonest on these topics proves that everybody isn’t wrong when they say we don’t like holding ourselves accountable and don’t allow the space for anyone else to either. That’s also the very reason so many of us are emotionally stunted but hey
You talk about how your mother was your abuser and people call you #misogynist because it’s not permissible to talk about women as violent without first and foremost blaming external forces and couching it in sympathy over how hard her life must have been.
Yeah Esther’s technique is not just an ombré to me. She built upon what was already out there but covered more ground when it comes to blush maximalism, especially as it pertains to dark skin. I think it’s fine for her to be disturbed by a lack of integrity and disingenuousness.
It’ll always be.. eye opening to me the grace given to them folks but not our own. Anyway shop Juvia’s place a safe space for black and brown women to shop great blushes 🩷
She went to her then husband’s workplace to collect a car that was in her name, paid by her but driven by him. In turn, he went to apply for a protection order and argued that she had caused him psychological harm when she went to his place of work to collect the car.
P.S he wasn’t even at work that day.