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[Dre @DreDrexcii]

If we date, don’t stop being you. Keep having fun, keep seeing your friends, keep chasing your goals, and keep enjoying your life. A relationship should add to your life, not take away from it. Just make sure you save time for us too.

[DD. @_DamyaDanielle]

I stopped being this friend bc I’ve simply never had anyone be this friend to me. No shade!

[eliz @eliza___v]

Nobody:

Me soon as I get a voice message:

[D. @Lush_Beauty1]

Girls, please PICK THE GENTLE ONE. The kind one. The one who brings you peace. The protective one. The one who is sure of you. The one who respects you. The one who understands your silence.. The one who sees your heart without judgment. The one who holds your dreams with care.

[Lisa @lisathebeauty1]

for relationships to last you really gotta see your partner's point of view of things .and be considerate. And be willing to grow. people can learn from their mistakes it's all about communication.

[B 🦋 @DontWorryBoutB]

yes, but if you stick around long enough after they tell it, it’ll all make sense to you.

[Lisa @lisathebeauty1]

I wouldn't have went through half of the stuff I went through if I just said no and had boundaries

[‏ً @omgsidewalks]

no matter how angry you are, there are hurtful things you can never say to people you claim to love

[WICK @1wickedwick]

yes but it be genuine I can’t help it

[Triiad ୭୭ @triiadxx]

this is why you shouldn’t have a kid with just anyone. Dads are important.

[k @alfkkifine]

your SPOUSE is the one who’ll sit beside you when your PARENTS DIE. who’ll hold your hand through CHILDBIRTH. who might have to BATHE YOU if you’re ever too sick to stand. this isn’t just about BUTTERFLIES or DATE NIGHTS. it’s about choosing someone who SHOWS UP... in GRIEF, in MESS, in UNCERTAINTY. so no, LOVE ALONE isn’t enough. COMMITMENT, MATURITY, and the ability to ENDURE life’s ugly parts... that’s what sustains a MARRIAGE. because when life gets PAINFULLY REAL, ROMANCE won’t carry you... CHARACTER will. and the truth is, FOREVER is only possible with someone who knows how to STAY when it’s HARD TO LOVE

[Temitope💕 @Tea_1904]

My rules in a relationship:
1. Speak to me with kindness, especially when you’re upset.
2. Be consistent. I don’t thrive in confusion.
3. Communicate clearly. I shouldn’t have to decode you.
4. Respect my boundaries the first time I say them.
5. Effort should be natural, not something I beg for.
6. Protect my heart, don’t test how much I can endure.
7. Accountability over ego. Apologies should come with change.
8. Choose peace with me daily, not just when it’s convenient.

I love with grace, not desperation.

[A.VICTOR @Lifeof_AG01]

Consideration is THE love language.

[𝖑𝖔𝖔𝖙𝖊𝖉 @6looted]

you really have to learn how to be okay by yourself. you have to learn how to calm yourself down, motivate yourself, wipe your tears away and make yourself happy.

people can love you and support you, but you still need to know how to stand by yourself.

[22gunner @Gnar1104]

He will bring you out of a situation u got yourself into, and won't hold it against you✨️.

[♰ 𝙽𝚊𝚎𝚝𝚘 @fw_naetoblaq]

“Babe I'm sorry I made you feel this way, how do we fix it”

[CHIDINMA @cruisequeeeen]

I tell him what’s wrong and he actually listens… then provides solutions

[𝖑𝖔𝖔𝖙𝖊𝖉 @6looted]

consistency, consideration & communication.

[D. @Lush_Beauty1]

This is my prayer and I know God is listening

[‏ً @omgsidewalks]

I gift myself for making it through the week.. I don't even play about me.