tbh i can never sympathise with men. how are you still a loser in a system that has literally favoured you over everyone and everything since the dawn of time ????
Please date a man who believes in romance & provider mindset. Like holding doors open for you, buying you flowers, writing you love letters, courting you, treating you gently, planning surprises for you and honouring your heart in whatever ways he can & you deserve all of that >
Someone who loves you will never be okay with hurting you. When you love something, you don't play with it. You don't take chances losing it. You don't neglect it. So, a person who is treating you like shit & making U question your self worth can't be your soulmate, PERIOD !!