Amos Friday

Amos

[Amos Friday @amosfriday002]

@Wizarab10 You're not yet matured to be in a relationship

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

Many of you young men have taken the privilege of having me on this app for granted.

You don't have sense when it comes to dealing with women.

And it's quite unfortunate that many of you do not have close relationships with your fathers.

You cannot be a happy man in life if you do not find a good wife and a good mother for your children.

And whether you like it or not, all these young girls that you're misleading, would be your future wives.

I come here every day, using myself as example to illustrate how you should lead women and treat them, but may be you think I am lying or deceiving you.

If you think that all these young girls that you're sleeping with, will not get married, you're joking.

They'll repackage themselves for other men.

And others that you didn't sleep with, will repackage themselves for you.

And then you'll see the wife that you married.

You can't escape it.

You keep spending money on young women like you're married to them, and making them used to a lifestyle that is not sustainable, and makes them prone to cheating, should such lifestyle stop coming.

Even if you marry a virgin, it's the same.

I pity you people ooo.

If your father (when he was dating your mother) treated your mother the way you treat your girlfriends today, most of you would not have good mothers.

And to make things worse, many of you are criminals or sympathetic to criminals.

When young men steal, young women will become prostitutes.

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[Amos Friday @amosfriday002]

@MrCharlesky Interested

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@Earnerfun Interested

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@JobFound5 Interested

[Amos Friday @amosfriday002]

@onu_slim I'm interested Sir

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

The time when our mothers got married before 25 is not the same as the time we are in now.

Younger women of these days are more exposed but not necessarily wiser.

Even though they may be more educated.

And that lack of wisdom makes them unfit for marriage.

If you decide to marry them, please know that you're not marrying your mother.

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[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

I take this issue of indiscriminate or unplanned childbearing very personally because it really affects our society.

And it also causes feud, envy, and resentment within a family unit.

I just stumbled on a video.

A man noticed a young girl who hawks pear. She's not more than 10 years old.

He observed that an old man was talking to her on the road, and he decided to confront both of them.

Upon interrogation, the young girl said that the man offered her N1,000 so that she could go with him to a corner for them to indulge in sexual activities.

Visibly annoyed, the man who confronted them physically attacked the old man, and it drew a crowd.

The young girl looked malnourished but was smart enough to reject the man's offer.

This is what poverty can do to you and your children, & lack of discernment in bringing forth innocent children to this world.

A young girl that should be in school, is on the streets hawking pears to feed her parents.

If the government is failing us, should we also be failing ourselves?

The insecurity that we have in the northern part of Nigeria is another example.

All those Almajiris we see on the streets, most of them are now the terrorists and bandits that are terrorizing the country today.

It cuts across our society.

When parents fail to live up to their responsibilities, the entire society will bear the brunt of it.

End.

[Amos Friday @amosfriday002]

@crypto_Aaaminah We kuku dey oo

[Amos Friday @amosfriday002]

@AramideOyekunle I'm interested

[EMMANUEL INDEED,GADGETS & MORE @Emmanuel_indeed]

The day you'll lose your father to death is the day you'll realise how important he was in your life.

You’ll start to see it immediately.

It'll first start from how your village people will make demands from you, before he's buried.

Life without a father is not something you prepare for overnight.

It’s a role you’re forced to grow into.

Respect him.

[Jay Ademola @x_pricze]

Just look at the questions Agba asked. You can easily tell where your problem is just by his questions:

"How old is the marriage?"
The first five years of marriage are already the hardest.

"Is your father still alive?"
This means your first resort should be asking your father for advice. In most cases, his counsel will align with what an Àgbà would say.

"Is your wife a graduate?"
This is to check if she has a higher degree than you. If she does, that’s a red flag. As a man, you should be at least five steps ahead.

"How long did you date her?"
If the dating period was short, less than six months, then you didn’t vet at all, or the vetting was shallow. You missed many things you could have caught early if you took your time.

"Who paid her school fees?"
Relationships built on pity or obligation rarely produce loyalty. Don’t pay her rent or school fees if you’re not married to her.

"Is she still in your house?"
A woman caught cheating is a dangerous woman. If she’s still living with you, your safety can be at risk. This is not something to joke with.

"How old are you, and how old is she?"
As a man, you shouldn’t date or marry someone older than you. The age gap between you and your wife should mostly be within 3–5 years.

"Did you have kids before marriage?"
Many marriages happen to avoid shame, not because of commitment. You don’t marry a woman because she got pregnant for you, you marry her because you’ve vetted her and confirmed she’s a good wife.

"And are you sure the kids are yours?"
Until DNA is done and you’re sure, this remains a serious issue. This uncertainty alone is a huge reason why she may be acting badly or without respect.

[Amos Friday @amosfriday002]

@Solithra Happy New Year

[Amos Friday @amosfriday002]

@jon_d_doe 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

You young men and women should please take my teachings on fraud & criminality, seriously.

I love you all, & that's why I am doing it.

My choice of words may be too painful.

But I need them to sting.

When they sting, it'll cause you to think.

Not all of you would listen to me.

But some would.

I have showed you all several testimonies, of people who made a change, after reading from me repeatedly.

I don't do this out of spite.

I have never been a victim of fraud.

I have never been arrested by any security agencies.

I have never slept a night in a police cell.

But that doesn't mean that I must keep quiet, because things may be going okay for me.

I know that we live in a very corrupt country.

A country where many hopes of the youths, have been stolen by a few greedy politicians.

And many have struggled to survive, out of frustration, poverty & humiliation.

But in all, I want to appeal to you, to shun greed.

All these things are caused by greed.

It's greedy politicians that steal our common patrimony.

And it's also greedy citizens, that steal from others.

An eye for an eye, makes the world go blind.

If our youths are seeing stealing as the new norm, then there is no way we can be better than the politicians that we all criticize today.

It'll now be a case of...

"You have chopped. It's now my turn to chop".

You see that we are heading nowhere?

The first step in building a better country, is for us to recognize our problems.

And then we decide the best way forward as youths, and well meaning Nigerians.

Should we encourage stealing, because some of our political leaders are stealing?

Or we should discourage it, and raise a new generation that doesn't want an eye for an eye?

Nigeria will not move forward, if we all continue to turn blind eye to the menace of yahoo and prostitution, or if we want to pretend that it's just a wee drop in an ocean.

It's not.

It's affecting us as a country.

Our image is being blacklisted in many countries.

Our green passport keeps losing respect for human dignity & decency.

This is not how we can collectively build a better country.

I hope you listen to me.

My voice may be like a voice on the desert, but my words are true & realistic.

It doesn't matter what anyone says out there.

Lastly, please shun tribalism, political and religious bigotry as well.

They are a very dangerous path to tread.

End.

[nairamarley @officialnairam1]

Never mock a brother to entertain the table.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

You cannot call yourself a responsible woman, if your bf or husband is a criminal.

I repeat.

You're irresponsible, a bad wife & mother.

A society where women accept criminals as bfs or husbands, is a failed society.

Stop being greedy, & reject these criminal men.

End.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

Any woman that is intentionally dating a yahoo boy, or married to one.

Is a prostitute.

End.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

That's why many of you do not realise that, the reason I am vehemently against stealing, is because it is the number one catalyst for unhealthy relationships and marriage.

You cannot have a society where many young men are thieves, & you would have responsible women for either relationship or marriage.

Men lead the society.

And if all the average young man between the ages of 18-25 knows, is that unless you make money (by hook or by crook), then you cannot date girls, we will always have a problem.

Prostitutes used to be mostly much older women, divorcees or single mothers.

But today, it's difficult to differentiate the "normal" young girl and a prostitute.

There is no way I can be here teaching how to have a healthy & non transactional relationship, and I'll not go ham on fraud.

Especially amongst the young men.

You cannot possibly lead a woman right, if you're a thief.

And unfortunately, this is rubbing off on other legitimate young men, because the young girls who they're supposed to have healthy relationships with, have been poisoned by these criminals.

Thereby, raising their standards to an unrealistic level, which only criminals can afford to meet.

If it was this bad during my teens and 20s, I would not have met my lovely wife the way I met her.

And I most likely would not have been able to sustain our relationship for 9 years.

Because I was very broke and building life, like many of you legitimate young men today.

If we don't unite to fight these "cancer", by using our coveted social media platforms, while hoping that the government authorities do their best to curb it, what we would be witnessing in many years to come, would be a disaster.

Men would be marrying prostitutes, and sound family values will be gradually going extinct.

Young married men would no longer trust their wives, & young wives would be prostituting right from their matrimonial homes.

I have been carefully documenting these ills on my page, hoping that posterity would be kind to me.

When young men become thieves, young women will become prostitutes.

End.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

A father, is not supposed to spend a night in his daughter's matrimonial home.

But it happens sometimes, due to some circumstances.

It doesn't make it right.

If he had a choice at the time, he won't pass a night there.

His son's matrimonial home, is more comfortable.

End.