Another comes here to tell us,
"Africa is our business,"
But when an important African business was happening on African soil, he was in Europe, eating lasagna like Khlestakov, the deceitful character in the play The Government Inspector by Nikolai Gogol.
Liars!
Your problem is not a lack of money
Your problem is a lack of self-discipline.
If you can't be disciplined with 1000, you won't have discipline even if given 1 million.
Money and indiscipline are mutually exclusive.
Emotional intelligence is the ultimate test of a man's character.
When should I speak?
Is it worth it?
Is it sensible?
Politicians, especially the newer, younger crop, lack emotional intelligence.
They speak fwaaaaa, as long as there is a microphone and a camera rolling.
When powerful politicians of previous regimes begin facing accountability for the mistakes, miscalculations, and blunders they committed,
They still imagine that they are proximal to state instruments to avoid culpability and remain elusive.
The loop of convolution that bedevils them when it is time to face the truth, reminding us all that power is ephemeral.
Power is fleeting.
It is temporary.
One day, you are talking with arrogance and chutzpah, demeaning people you disagree with, while humiliating citizens, and the next time, you are hiding in a bunker, running away from your soul.
One day you are cock on the walk, next you are a feather duster.
To you arrogant politicians, tone down and remain humble.
Remain humble, the world is round.
Remain righteous, your soul is unforgiving.
I have seen people telling you,
"Go to court and seek full custody."
Don't attempt that nonsense.
Your money, sobriety and soul will be drained, and you will be left depressed.
Avoid custodial drama. It traumatizes children, even when they become adults.
Your baby mama is spoiling for a fight.
She knows you are emotionally attached to the child, which is why she is weaponizing this attachment against you.
You are also on WhatsApp begging her and sounding so desperate, and this is her weapon against you.
If truly the child is yours,
Do this:
• Open a bank account and deposit money there monthly.
• Send her the ATM card and put a monthly limit on withdrawals.
• Pay fees directly to the school.
• If the child wants shoes, uniform and textbooks, pay directly to the shops.
• Cut communications completely. Don't text. Don't call.
• Approach more women. This is your buffer against oneitis.
• Connect with your Anima (SOPHIA).
In 3 months of silence, she will begin looking for you. She might be dramatic at first, but don't let her chaos distract you.
Remain silent and firm.
She will submit and begin texting you:
"Selfish man, don't you want to talk to the child?"
"Why do you hate us?"
"I regret knowing you."
"Your child is missing you."
"Your child has performed well this time."
"Your child has grown big and healthy."
"The teacher wants to talk to you together with your child."
It is here that you declare your boundaries:
• Demand for a DNA.
If the child is not yours, she will disappear forever, knowing that you have ended the exploitation.
If the child is yours, demand unlimited access.
Women with bad manners should be put in their place. DUSTBIN.
Stand firm like a mountain in a storm.