i saw a girl on tiktok who said “accountability is so important to me. nobody’s perfect, but don’t try to flip the script and make my reaction the issue when your actions lit the match” felt this to the core.
i have watched this thousands of times. i’ve sent it to exes. to former bosses. the way she accurately and clearly articulated how it feels to be a woman who feels as though she cannot express her valid emotions bc people won’t take what you say seriously. you’re just “crazy.”