One of the cruelest things about Autistic/ADHD masking is that you learn to treat positive emotions as a warning sign that you're about to do something
"wrong" and that it is therefore
"safest for everyone" if you maintain a constant, low-key negative internal emotional state.
my mom genuinely asked me why our abuse still bothers me so much when shes fine . i've been diagnosed with CPTSD and DID bro . experiencing abuse from 35-40 and being tortured daily from 8-13 are two VERY different scenarios
No its because danmei writers mostly women worked around the censorship to create a market for these stories. We have lost so many writers due to censorship. Stop praising it. Censorship is an active hindernce and has never helped anyone or any creative process
It's almost like all this performative outrage is just misogyny & misogyny's ineluctable destination is sexual violence. Exclusively for women. For men to feel dominant & powerful.
i could write a thesis about how the ‘dom shortage’ in queer spaces is because the more aggressive and violent aspects of desire have been demonized by society and internalized, particularly by queer people, making them afraid to think/act on it, but y’all aren’t ready
fyi they will likely include something like "untreatable gender dysphoria" as an eligible condition for assisted su*cide and euth*nasia in the near future once they finally legalise it in the UK (probably next month), they already include many other entirely treatable conditions
dont you just love it when youre jerking your morning wood and youre really into it until you pull your hand from down there and you see that period fucking blood
the thing that separates guys like this from guys in relationships is just liking women. that's it. if you enjoy spending time with women, as people, you will eventually find women who enjoy spending time with you, and that's the whole ballgame.
Ce que la littérature fait de plus beau, c’est de te rappeler que tes sentiments un peu bizzare ont toujours existé. Quelqu’un, quelque part dans un autre siècle, s’est senti tout aussi déconcerté par l’amour, saoulé par la société, fatigué de faire semblant et assoiffé de sens.