so far in my 20s, the best lesson i ever learned was that life will go on. People come and go, we lose friends, break up with lovers, meet new people, encounter success and failure and life will go on. You will be alright.
No person is 100% healed, because healing isn't linear. We go backwards & forwards & sometimes we're all over the place; but that's the process. Also, please don't think you need to be 100% healed to deserve love & good things in life. You deserve everything good coming your way.
You know what's crazy. You can go out for dinner every night in England and hardly put on any weight. You go for dinner every night in the US and you become OBESE. The way the food is processed in the States compared to Europe is mind blowing.