I survived a lot of friendships with women who had hidden animosity towards me when all I wanted was sisterhood ! So yes, I’m very selective now 🤷🏾♀️!
I realized I’m the problem. I allow people to do me any kinda way, and I just, love them anyway. Sometimes harder. I tend to choose people who aren't willing to choose me. and hold onto people I should let go of. but l am a pourer. I try to pour life, positivity and energy into everyone around me without having the right people in my life to pour it back... That stops. I gotta love me more than I love y'all
Remember when we learned that our wealthiest and most powerful people were connected to a guy who ran a literal child sex trafficking ring? And then that guy died mysteriously in a jail? And now we just don't talk about it.
People don’t talk enough about how being too self-aware can ruin you. Noticing every tiny shift inside your own mind, every motive, every micro feeling. It sounds wise, but it’s debilitating & you can’t turn it off. You watch yourself living instead of just… living. And the more you understand yourself, the more you mourn the parts you can’t fix. It’s like holding a flashlight you never asked for, pointed directly at your own soul. And the worst part is knowing exactly why you’re hurting, exactly where it comes from & still feeling powerless to change it. It’s strange how clearly I can see myself & still not know how to be myself. I swear, sometimes knowing myself is the thing that breaks me the most. And the truth is… there’s no off switch for a mind that won’t stop looking at itself.
everyone is talking about how poor people shouldn’t be allowed to buy junk food with food stamps… i don’t think billionaires should be able to buy 14 year olds on a private island
Girls will suffer unearthly tragedies and still actually run errands the same day with a smile on their face but if a man's parents divorce when he is 12 he will unleash his wrath on the world for the rest of his life
If we talking about drugs let’s talk about Epstein and friends drugging underage girls to rape them. Why yall don’t wanna talk about the Epstein files?
I stopped telling people when my mental health starts getting bad again. Once I heard someone say how exhausting it is to love someone with depression and anxiety, it never left me.
The last thing I want is to drain the people I care about while I’m fighting just to stay afloat. So I stay quiet. I struggle alone. Not because I want to but because I’d rather carry it in silence than feel like a burden. That kind of pain isn’t something most people ever have to understand.
My therapist told me:
“When a person grows up feeling unseen, they learn to love by over-giving. They pour into everyone else, hoping that, one day, someone will finally pour back into them. So they become the care taker. The fixer. The one who shows up, even when no one shows up for them.”
And the hardest part? Deep down, they're not trying to be strong. They're just waiting for someone to do for them what they've spent their whole life doing for everyone else.
depression has taken all my color from me i am just a boring lifeless shell of a person i cant hold a conversation i zone out all the time i have no interests anymore nothing brings me joy & i feel like a complete & utter burden & nuisance to everyone
People think depression means your sad and crying all the time. Depression for me is being stuck in a twilight zone. i can't think , i don't respond to things , nothing is interesting , i just feel empty. not sad , just blank. I have a lot of days like this and they are hard .