If I’m being completely honest, half the things I went through were because of me, my lack of discipline, ignoring my gut feelings, my inability to set boundaries, say NO when necessary, and my poor decision-making.
Stop letting a man who move funny run your emotions. If he can go ghost, act weird, and sleep peaceful at night, then you can remove yourself from his life and sleep even better. Don’t give power to inconsistency. If he can detach that easy, you can detach permanently. Choose you
I ain’t fucking with no half ass niggas this year! Go suck the life outta somebody else! I’m in my prime! Come crazy for me or move the fuck around! You niggas be wanting to do the bare minimum while blocking the blessings of what a bitch really deserve!! Fuck on somewhere!!
We don’t talk enough about how as an adult you have to intentionally teach yourself how to lock-in. It’s very easy to get caught up in FOMO, which results in stagnancy
i immediately go silent when something upsets or hurts me. it's a coping mechanism i have developed over time. instead of expressing my anger or frustration, i simply withdraw and try to process my emotions in private.
i’m so easy to communicate with because i’m so understanding i swear i am.. so when people take the weird route with me instead of approaching me on some grown shit it irritates me because now i have to show my whole ass on you.
I can easily tell when someone has fallen for the idea of me and not me. It’s really simple kiddos, they never ask questions to get to know you more. In their mind they already know you.