Jamás imaginé que un solo año pudiera golpearme y desgastarme tanto. Me ha ido quitando cosas, personas y pedazos de mí hasta dejarme preguntándome cuánto más tengo que perder para que, por fin, termine.
Nobody likes you when you're depressed. Plain and simple. We can talk all day about mental health and how important it is, but the moment you are depressed, people start to distance themselves. They see you as negative, a burden, and someone too heavy to handle.
When a woman is in problem, the whole world comes to help her.
When a man is in problem, no one cares whether he lives or dies.
You are a man.
Be your own saviour.
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LAYOFFS IN 2026:
GET LAID OFF
You join a normal meeting and leave without a job.
Years of loyalty can disappear in a 10-minute video call.
GO HOME
Except home is where you were already working when you got laid off.
You close the company laptop and suddenly realize you have nowhere to log in tomorrow.
WATCH YOUR MENTAL HEALTH DECLINE
At first, you tell yourself you'll find something quickly.
Months of rejection can turn confidence into anxiety, isolation, and hopelessness.
PUT YOUR RELATIONSHIP UNDER PRESSURE
Bills don't stop because your income stopped.
Financial stress starts affecting relationships that had nothing to do with your job.
APPLY FOR HUNDREDS OF JOBS
Job hunting becomes your new full-time job.
You send hundreds of applications and still wake up to automated rejections.
GET REJECTED BY EVERYONE
Recruiters stop replying. Friends stop asking how the search is going.
Even family gatherings become uncomfortable because everyone asks the same question.
START BORROWING MONEY
Savings disappear faster than expected, but rent, food, and bills remain.
Eventually, asking people for help becomes less embarrassing than having nothing.
LOWER YOUR EXPECTATIONS
You stop searching for the perfect role and start searching for anything that pays.
Salary expectations, job titles, and career progression become secondary to survival.
WATCH YOUR CAREER SLIP AWAY
The longer you're unemployed, the harder it can feel to explain the growing résumé gap.
A layoff that wasn't your decision starts feeling like something you're being punished for.
WATCH THE COMPANY MOVE ON
Your replacement may be cheaper, your responsibilities redistributed, and your position forgotten.
Meanwhile, you're still rebuilding the life that one corporate decision disrupted.