my mom once told me "accountability will always feel like an attack when you are not ready to acknowledge how your behavior harms others" and that shit is real.
Heartbreak in your 30s is crazy. There’s no clubbing or rebounds. You go to sleep, gym, work, question all your life choices, and listen to the same three songs on repeat like they’re part of your healing plan. 😭
A hard pill that I had to swallow and coming into realization is that someone wanted the benefits of having me without wanting the responsibility of fully choosing me