Dear baby Jesus
I don’t ask for much
Just grant me, in 2026, the calm and the nonchalance of this girl to face the fires of life
That would be enough for me 🔥
Something no one teaches us growing up: Closure isn't something another person gives you 💔
I see this in my therapy office often. People waiting for their ex to explain why they left, hoping their parents will acknowledge the hurt they caused, wanting an apology that may never come.
Closure is something you decide to give yourself.
It's not the perfect explanation or heartfelt apology. It's the moment you stop waiting for someone else to give you permission to move forward. Waiting for clarity from someone who hurt you is just another way of staying stuck.
What are you waiting for someone else to give you that you could give yourself instead? Share in the comments.
@iWomansplainer My mom told me it took 10 months to put it on, don't expect any less for it to come off! Also, obviously you have more important things to worry about and WHO CARES.