it’s never beef w/ me bc i’m genuinely grateful for my dating experiences. i learn a lot about myself + my blind spots and get closer to being ready for my person
Solange was onto something when she said “I can’t be a singular expression of myself. There are too many parts, too many spaces, too many manifestations, too many lines, too many curves, too many colors, too many flavors for me to be one thing.”
I don’t ever wanna come off to independent that a man comes in my life and think it’s OK to do the bare minimum. I’m also not a beggar so I’ll never ask & shouldn’t have to. Any man truly pursuing you will take initiative without you saying a word.
Also as a creative it’s okay to pivot.
I think it’s time to explore what else you have the potential to do that still aligns with your goals both creatively and financially.