I’ve been noticing how social media has turned consistency from a strategy into proof that you’re serious, and if you’re not consistent then “you don’t want It that bad” And the annoying part is, consistency does work.
I have zero femily connection and it stresses me so bad that some of my earlier memories are me crying on my mother's chest saying i wish i was "one or the other, no matter which". I always felt like a weird in-between.