Everyone wants to optimise their diet and workouts in order to "LOOK BETTER AT THE POOL" and "LOOK BETTER IN THE SUMMER"
But they forget to optimise for BEING AT THE POOL and HAVING MONEY IN THE SUMMER
Since I was a teenager heard so many men talk about this POOL FANTASY, BEACH FANTASY - where you're there SHREDDED and SEXY wasting time with whores
The problem is
Less than 1% of them actually afford being at these pools more than 5 times per year
- they're all on a tight schedule cause they have to work
- they're all worms and rarely go to those fancy locations around the world with beach clubs and hot chicks
- they cannot afford living in a house that has a pool
Etc.
OK YOU GOT THE POOL BODY
YOU GOT THE POOL FREE TIME TO WASTE THERE? Probably not
You only optimised for first part of the story 😁
Things that are overrated when it comes to dating:
- Having "game"
- The gym
- Spitting "clever" lines
- Using the perfect "opener"
- Caring about what fragrance you use
- How well you fuck
- Height
Thins that are underrated when it comes to dating:
- Being considered rich by the girls you wanna fuck
- Being at the right spot at the right time
- Being an alcoholic
- Being funny and fun to be around
- Being out frequently
- Being popular
- Going out a lot in the right places
- Having hot ex's
- Being retarded
In the near future, every girl that looks hot will end up a prostitute one way or another, because they see all the other prostitutes that look like them being on vacations and appearing rich
Nobody will want to be normal, be a wife - except the ugly short girls that feel outshined by the hot chicks and don't have confidence.
The ugly one will say to herself "Yeah all these girls are hot...." so maybe she'll have an excuse to not dream of being a whore
BUT the ones who look the best won't be able to abstain.
Hottest chicks in their high school, hottest chicks in a small town, hottest chicks in the office - they'll look around them and say "FUCK....this reality isn't for me....look at these girls on TikTok who look similar to me, they're doing fun shit, i'm clearly missing out"
Everyone will become a whore. Whore getting paid by one boyfriend or whore getting paid by many boyfriends.
Respect is all you have as a man.
Without it you're a nobody.
Millions in the bank wouldn't matter if everyone knew you as a clown
You need to be a respectable person
A man others wish to be like and women are attracted to
Chase respect not quick cash
It's better in the end
A person becomes more powerful and absorbs your energy if you mention him or talk negatively about him
This is why you should make moves in order for others to whisper behind your back
But you should avoid gossiping
Let them do it to you, while you completely ignore them.
Coffee dates are shit
- In big cities the traffic sucks and it takes hours to pick up the girl, have the coffee, take her back home
- It takes place during the day, when I wanna work and train. It distracts from my routines.
- The mood isn't romantic, you're both sober, it's light outside, normal people with jobs are rushing around you resolving tasks. Table next to you some corporate guy lurking eating soup, taking a break from his work stuff.
I prefer dates at 9-10-11 PM:
No traffic. Can have some drinks. Everyone's dressed nicely and came out to relax and have fun.
What's okay, during the day, instead of coffee, is a walk in the park if it's sunny outside. When you walk you have a better flow while conversating.
This idea that you should pay a woman's bills to show how masculine you are is the exact angle hoes use to get money out of simps
"A REAL MAN should handle all the bills..."
Listen
A "real man" should only handle the bills for the mother of his children or someone who is actively helping him succeed
Also most girls don't even respect this behaviour, they take it for granted, take make fun of it lowkey, they start thinking they're CLEVER and you're some loser. The kindness is often perceived as weakness.
Leaders must be high energy.
You can't ever be tired or depressed.
Otherwise your team won't listen to you.
Drink 100 coffees if you need to.
Go to the gym twice a day if it helps.
But you need that hustler's ambition.
The energy which will inspire others to work hard as well.
Without it your team is useless.
Never accept what life gives you.
Never compromise.
Always want more so you can have more.
But for that you need power
You can't negotiate if you're afraid of losing.
Not in business. Not even in dating.
You need to always demand more or realize you'll never reach your dreams
True love is chaos.
It's actually very similar to war.
Nothing is ever calm until the war ends
And then another one happens
There is only peace when you're together
As things can never be too good in dating especially in this drama driven world
That's modern dating explained
Burnout isn't real.
You can't feel tired if you're a hustler.
Because if you work hard you get rich.
And money gives energy to any man.
Depression and burnouts only exist in the universe of the lazy and the poor.
If you're a hard working rich man,
You're never tired or sad.
A woman receives attention and compliments after taking pictures dressed in her $20 yoga pants
A man receives attention after years of struggle, mental breakdowns and sleepless nights
Is this fair? No
Is this true? Yes
Accept reality and adapt accordingly
Namaste.
Focusing on pussy when life's shitty = BAD MOVE
Girls become fun when making money is on autopilot, everything is going fine, you're winning, you're in the right spot in terms of cashflow, free time, you feel proud of yourself.
Until then stay with one girlfriend and work.
Poor people are ok, as long as they're young
You can get along with a broke 20 year old, at least he daydreams he'll blow up, he lies to himself that he has POTENTIAL
But working with a 30 year old broke person makes no sense
He's one step away from taking his life anyway😂
If you ever wondered why you're a nobody and you don't have potential I'll explain:
Most ppl can't even do 3-4 things at the same time, probably you're the same
Ex.
Drive, text and talk fluently
Or drive, keep phone in the hand, listen to music, chit chat
Or walk the street, argue with GF on texts, while also paying attention to your friends and talking
When I first went to Tate's house he had 3 monitors in front of him:
Monitor 1 -> whatsapp and IG talking to 10-15 girls at the same time
Monitor 2 -> Twitter / news / work stuff
Monitor 3 -> Playing chess on the internet
He was operating on all 3 at the same time.
All this, while some women were making sounds in the background, people were talking, it was noise and he was paying attention and speaking to others.
How you want to be rich if u can't do basic shit?
U barely can do 1-2 things, but you dream of being "somebody"
You need perfect conditions, peace and quiet, to wake up without no "bad notification" - in order to function decently
Think of it son 🙂
If you get locked up or go through some severe illness
The bad bitch that tells you that you're great will suck another dick. Your friends will still get drunk on Saturday.
The only people who will suffer and remain by your side are your family
Careful who you prioritise.
Sooner or later your girl will probably get bored of your dick, jokes, routines
She'll leave and get fucked by others anyway
So why repress your inner desire to fuck hoes and to have fun with friends? The outcome is gonna be the same
FOLLOW YOUR INSTINCTS. FUCK HER FEELINGS.
Before going to bed write down the most important tasks for tomorrow
You don't have to complicated it too much just use NOTES in your phone.
If you don't do this you'll postpone important things, you'll forget, you'll get taken by surprise, you'll get distracted.
Namaste.
Love is not real.
It's an exchange of power, money and intimacy plus good vibes.
Same with friendship in a sense
No one keeps an useless person around.
At lest not for too long
It's either two people helping each other or no friendship exists
So you must make yourself useful