It's about the results not about the effort.
Find the shortcuts and be extremely efficient in everything you do.
Least amount of work for the maximum amount of results.
My cleaner works hard, but she’s poor.
Hustle smart not hard.
Your parents want you to be SAFE not SUCCESSFUL
Studying is safe
Jobs are safe
Long term relationships are safe
Etc.
Rarely you’ll hear a parent sending you to a boxing gym to get fucked up by savages
Or saying you should open a business
BUT YOU MUST DO IT ANYWAY.