got my last hairdresser appointment for a while on saturday, I'm SOOOO happy with my hair now π€
my roots were waay too long and now my hair's veryy cool toned but when the toner fades it'll look white again YESSSS
i could never b transmed bc sometimes u see a dude with no intention of ever transitioning in any meaningful way and u can tell by the vibes that he was always meant to b a dude anyway
have any of you ever been so horrifically mentally unwell that you constantly switch between wanting to tell nobody ab how bad it is and wanting to beg someone for literally any kind if helpπ
Its not like there arent reasons are questionable, a lot of its cope because a loss of femininity = a loss of male attention. Sometimes internal transphobia and the belief theyd never pass either way. But if its a stranger online its not ur place to investigate
Besides, most women wear "mens clothes" theyre just seen as gender nuetral now cuz masculinity is the default. The reason cis men dont wear womens clothes is because they see being a woman as degrading, which is bad. Crossdressing trans men are doing what the cis should be doing