my therapist said “people who struggle with anxiety & depression can't remember a lot, bc they're too busy focusing on how to get through each moment so they don t actually experience what is happening to them, causing them to not form the memory they were supposed to” felt that.
I think people forget that being in a relationship is actually a RESPONSIBILITY that you owe to the other person.
It’s not a “I’ll do things my way and that’s final”, it is about consideration.