Planning birthday parties. Paying bills. Ordering cap and gowns for my son’s graduation 🥹. Finalizing my son’s enrollment for his new school. Ordering new onesies for my daughter cuz she’s getting BIG! It’s giving Monday morning tasks on a Saturday but Happy Mother’s Day to me!
@EghosaO On top of trying to reach out, this person is tweeting & facebooking almost daily. So. I can’t grant the same access. I’ll keep them in my prayers & wish them well. That’s all I have the capacity for. If that makes me a person that lacks empathy then...
I gotta put me 1st 🤷🏽♀️
I had a friend that ghosted me this year. Couldn’t tell you why. Never disrespected them. Never spoke ill of them to anyone. I tried to be there for them as much as I could considering my own personal issues. I thought I was actually being a good friend...
@EghosaO I hear you. However, they’ve done this before. I’m not in a place to be emotionally played with. I’ve invested my time, money, energy, shared private information & confided in this person. I texted, called, dm’d & tried to find out why they went quiet. No response. So. I’m done.
@EghosaO I get it’s tough to communicate sometimes but, I have to protect my peace as well. So. I think I’m gonna continue to move on with my life with the hopes of encountering more solid like minded individuals. I wish them well tho.
@EghosaO at this point we’ve been friends for so long & they sorta did this before. Although they explained themselves the 1st time I don’t think I have the capacity to pour into the relationship any further. I have my own mental woes & we were building to be each other’s safe space…
What is a friendship with no communication though? If I offend, why wouldn’t you address it or let me know? Safe to say the friendship wasn’t real. I guess some people feel like they don’t have to explain themselves and that’s cool. Lesson learned.
This person I once was friends with was older than me too. I expected to learn something from them. Gain some extra wisdom. They literally disappeared without any communication. One thing about me? I’m gonna take accountability if I offend or hurt someone’s feelings...
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