It took me 26 years to understand... Why so many women stay in the wrong relationships. Because truth is... we don't actually date. We just... jump. Into the attention.. The good mornings. The late night talks. The butterflies. And before we know it... we're attached. Not because he's right. But because we never asked: Can I live with his habits? How does he handle anger? Can I wake up next to him every day for the rest of my life? Am I settling for comfort instead of love? We don't observe..We just attach. And that's why so many of us stay stuck. Not because he's right..... But because walking away.. feels heavier than staying. So please... slow down. Talk. Observe. Take your time. Because falling is easy. But healing after leaving? That... is the hardest part.
Yes, mengakui menyesal dan minta maaf itu harus ada dua parameter:
1. menjelaskan perilaku apa yang disesalin yang menyakiti lawan bicaranya.
2. memvalidasi perasaan lawan bicaranya karena perilaku kita menyakiti lawan bicara.
Terkesan panjang tapi ini definisi minta maaf dan menyesal yang sesungguhnya.
Kemudian, urusan memaafkan jangan dipaksakan, biarkan pihak sebelah sana yang memutuskan apakah layak dimaafkan atau tidak.
Sayangnya, belum banyak orang yang bisa begini, bahkan enggan belajar untuk bisa begini.
Ga Meragukan Allah SWT. Cuma ga tau tiap berdoa sungguh² (menurutku) kek selalu melenceng... pas b aja doa tapi ga sekenceng itu kadang dikabulin,kadang aku bingung cara doaku ada yang salahkah...atau doaku ketinggian😢🥺☹️☹️ tapi tetep percaya sama Allah pasti memberikan terbaik
gen-z slang domestic word
l8r : later
w8 : wait
l8 : late
10q : thank you
b4 : before
r8 : right
gr8 : great
2moro : tomorrow
4ut : for you too
d8 : date
2dy : today
4u : for you