Kitambo i used to see a married man akikuja local anachukua a corner seat analetewa chupa zake anakunywa hadi local ifungwe ndo aende kwake, kumbe ni venye bibi hampei amani ni visirani na makelele. Why do many women change after marriage? That sweet girl turns to a bitter woman
Copper IUD. Zero hormonal changes, lasts for 10 years, fertility is quick to return once you remove it. Get a good gyna to do it for you and you're good to go 👌🏾
there’s only three kinds of women who truly understand male nature
1. sex workers
2. beautiful women (upper echelon)
3. women in male dominated environments
Never regretted not getting married as a woman. As I age and watch the dynamics if marriages? How the privileges are skewed against my own gender? How most men hate the women they married? I'm good
Evlenirsen pişman olursun. Evlenmezsen de pişman olursun. Çocuk yapsan da yapmasan da pişman olursun. Kierkegaard bunu 200 yıl önce şöyle söylemiştir:
"Neyi seçersen seç pişman olursun. Çünkü sorun tercihlerinde değil yaşanmamış bir hayatı romantize etmendir. İnsan her daim gidilmemiş bir yolu cazibeli ve gizemli bulur. Bu yüzden mesele en doğru seçimi yapman değil. Hangi pişmanlıkla yaşayacağını seçip karar vermendir."
Sen neye karar verdin?
When a man applies too much pressure within the first few weeks of meeting you, he is often driven by lust and mainly wants to sleep with you as quickly as possible. As a woman, you should be able to recognize this.
I met a Tanzanian woman in her early 30s who had a master’s degree from NYU. She couldn’t cook, so I asked if she was willing to learn. She said no.
On top of that, she was a vegetarian. I looked at my weight and thought, “Nah, this isn’t for me.”
Then I met my wife. The first time she came to my house, she cooked me a wonderful meal.
I ghosted the Tanzanian woman and ended up marrying my wife. Within a year of marriage I had gained 26 pounds. We’re still happily married to this day.
Marrying my wife was one of the best decisions I ever made.
TRAGIC NEWS:
Mercy Nyambura, a Grade Six pupil at Sinendet Primary School was found killed in a maize plantation on Tuesday, May 20, 2026.
The girl had been missing since Monday evening, May 18, 2026. Her body was discovered in the plantation today morning
The school and community left in shock. Police have launched an investigation.
Our deepest condolences to her family, teachers and friends. May her soul rest in peace.
I have no problem with 50/50.
But the moment I start contributing financially to the household monthly, you also start contributing domestically.
You will cook too.
Clean too.
Do laundry too.
Wash toilets too.
Bathe the children too.
Go to the market too.
You cannot demand 50/50 bills while expecting me to carry 100% of the house chores and childcare.
If we are both acting like providers, then we are both acting like homemakers too.
Women who are truly in love with a man they admire often desire him with overwhelming intensity. They want to touch him constantly, think about him constantly, merge their life and body with his existence in ways that feel instinctual. Attraction starts feeling existential.
You cannot stop thinking about him sexually and emotionally. You dream about building a life with him, having children with him, existing beside him permanently.
The desire becomes so deep that distance itself begins to feel painful. Being unable to touch him or be near him and being unable to experience his presence starts registering almost physically within the body.
That is why reducing all intimacy to “sex work” feels so spiritually empty to me. Real love transforms desire into something far more profound than transaction. It becomes devotion, longing, attachment, admiration, and an almost unbearable need for closeness.
Emotionally deprived women are usually the ones who reduce love between men and women to mere transaction.
If you genuinely believe that all relationships with men are merely sex work, then perhaps you have simply never experienced what it means to deeply love and respect a man.
In all of this, I just want to thank women that fought tooth and nail for women’s rights to education, employment, ownership and everything we take for granted now. Let all of protect our mental health and peace which ever way we choose 🙏🏾
I feel like if you have a partner, certain conversations about relationships especially gender wars, you shouldn’t involve yourself in, cause why are you there? You’ve obviously found your person, what concerns you with the calamities of others, my thoughts tho
There's nothing worse than waking up at 35+ .. you're single, have kids, no money and no skills. I can't give a man the power to do this to men. And trust me, one day he will. Ata kama ni 20 years later.
Tukiwaambia the reality of how this type of a relationship/marriage ends you will call us haters. So it's better for a woman to experience it for themselves. For character development. But NEVER put all your financial needs on a man and trust that he'll always deliver. Ivo tu