I know some of you don’t want to hear it because you created this narrative that it’s easier to just give up & accept your situation but I’ll say it anyway just in case.
You always, ALWAYS have the power to create the reality you see fit no matter what. You just have to ask.
I am in a season of my life where I am not going to explain why I don’t want to do something in every situation. I don’t want to do it and my no should be more than enough for you.
We are done with over explaining just so the other person isn’t mad or sad at our no’s.