Ngl in order to become a better person, you must first realize how horrible you really are. not in the dramatic sense, but in the quiet ways you sabotage yourself, repeat unhealthy patterns, hurt people who care about you, or tolerate what wounds you. you cannot grow if you keep pretending you're innocent in the story you created
asking you to be my girlfriend doesn’t mean i’m your boyfriend. you’re the one who’s my girlfriend. if you want me to be your boyfriend, you have to ask me too.