A police officer tried to kidnap me 9 mo. ago then falsely charged me w/ a felony causing me to lose my job. I finally got a new job but need $600 to survive to my first check. Anything helps, even sharing ♥️
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You think your friends are stupid and pussy AND are comfortable enough to say that to others but that’s the epitome of love. Ok ooo. Heaven help us all
“Holding space” is my new pet peeve empty phrase. People will do the most evil shit and the same breath tell you they are “holding space”. Like wtf are you talking about? Hold this dick
Most women aren’t going to kill you though. But they’ll try to kill your spirit. They will socially alienate and annihilate you, they will put you through severe psychological warfare that causes you to go into isolation. Women who play social games are dangerous.
The “men only want your body” mantra is actually a coverup for their more nefarious intention which is to flood your mind with unnecessary stress so they can siphon your labor into their own goals while you’re too overwhelmed too pursue your own
It’s why I lost my college girlfriends after graduation. They started getting established and my undiagnosed audhd was started to boil over in the worst way.
If you desire friendship as a place to be truly authentic and vulnerable, it’s a difficult journey regardless of gender. Especially if you grew up in an unfeeling, judgmental culture. But it’s not impossible! Just takes a lot of grace for oneself
Maybe we can also talk about how a lot of friendships amongst women are contingent on performing completeness. Once you show cracks you are quickly discarded and demonized
And if I’m being honest, I’m only open to friendships with people who have stood up to their parents at least once before because at least I know you’re fucking honest
And it’s hard being divergent and not recognizing that you are and having these weird ass relationships where people put you on a pedestal bc they think that you’re one way but when they get to know you, it’s like oh no, you’re too much, like please get away from me I’m not a pet
ngl if u have mommy issues and issues making female friends & ur not male centered it's bc u keep choosing friends that have the same abusive qualities as ur mama cuz it's familiar to u 😭😭😭😭😭
ngl if u have mommy issues and issues making female friends & ur not male centered it's bc u keep choosing friends that have the same abusive qualities as ur mama cuz it's familiar to u 😭😭😭😭😭
you have to deal with your shame before you can even think of imposing yourself on someone for the rest of their lives. shame makes you dishonest and untrustworthy