The worst thing is realizing that someone isn't a bad friend, they're a bad friend to you, specifically.
Like wow apparently you're capable of not being an asshole to people who are not me? Cool cool.
Unfortunately most of what we when been taught about being good is actually just people pleasing, conforming to behaviors that bring social acceptance and seeking approval.
Being naturally shy is hard. People always think you have an attitude and are being rude or standoffish cause you don’t talk. Like damn maybe I can’t think of anything to say 🤣
it’s crazy how we just go to sleep every night and trust our bodies to continue working and not fold on us. it’s really a big deal to be able to wake up and see the next morning