it cannot be stressed enough how much choosing well shapes your life.
do not romanticize a wedding day. visualize the reality of a lifetime.
who is there at 2am with a feverish child
who holds you together in loss
who celebrates your wins without resentment
who builds you back up when you are at your lowest
marriage is not the moment or the titles. it is the lifetime that follows.
Don’t let anyone gaslight you into thinking intellectual mismatch is not a thing in romantic relationships. It's not even about formal degrees or booksmarts. It shows up in things like curiousity, conversational depth, imagination, openness, and worldviews.
girls will survive abuse, heartbreak, grief, and unspeakable tragedies and still move through the world with kindness and compassion, but one minor inconvenience in a man’s childhood and he spends the rest of his life terrorizing and poisoning everyone around him
idk who needs to hear this but the sooner you realize you’re not addicted to THINGS (food, substances, people) but FEELINGS (euphoria, clarity, motivation, belonging) you can replace your vices with healthy alternatives that achieve the same (if not more prolonged) results.
every time you say “this is new for me” instead of “i’m bad at this,” you allow your brain space to learn instead of shut down. that’s neuroplasticity in real time.
Men are finally experiencing what its like to be a woman and they can’t stand it. For Decades, women have been judged on the way they look, what they bring to the table and how they can serve the man. Now that women have access to their own funds ,their own housing,their own jobs it is a different ball game for these men and they don't like it. women are finally asking what do you bring to the table because I already have everything I need….basically we're judging men on their looks, their finances, and what they bring to the table so we're flipping the script and this has brought a resurgence and men whining & being like “I can't find anyone” “male loneliness epidemic”…..so basically women are doing the same thing men have been doing to us since the beginning of time, AND THEY ARE NOT LIKING IT
Do not pursue men. If he likes you, he will do everything he can to make it known to you. Nonchalant, avoidant men aren’t relationship material. Leave them where they are.
They won’t, but misogynists need to understand:
Women do not care if you don’t like what music we listen to. Or the books we read. Or the shows we watch. Or the fashion, makeup, or body art we prefer. We don’t care and it’s unhinged to expect us to not like what we like FOR YOU.
Marriage only benefits a woman when the man is truly capable of leading, providing, and protecting. Otherwise she’s just adding responsibilities to a life she already manages alone.
marriages "lasted longer" back in the day because women were socialised into accepting subjugation, subservience, weakness, financial dependence, and abuse- as a way of life.
"long lasting marriages" weren't a sign of happiness, sometimes they were a symbol of helplessness
Men are really losing it in the replies because he’s basically exposing the lies men have sold for centuries; biological clock, women aging like milk and the “lonely and miserable” fear-mongering tactic projected unto women that have refused to settle for less and the realization that men are infact the ones these rules apply to 💀
I feel like the "Jeffrey Epstein" that been built up over the years across our internet zeitgeist with jokes and memes has kinda numbed people to the fact this was a real man who was actively trafficking and raping children of all ages, for decades.
you really can decide to just stop believing in the concept of shame. that doesn't mean you'll stop feeling it, but you can just be like "yeah I'm over that"
JD Vance is going to divorce his Indian wife, distance himself from his family, marry Charlie Kirk’s widow, and position himself as a candidate for the 2028 U.S. presidential election.