Being in a healthy relationship really taught me there's no such thing as 'that's just the way I am'. When you truly love someone you work on those toxic traits, you learn to communicate, you actively listen to each others thoughts & feelings โ you adjust, evolve & heal together.
Instead of nightclubs I want a 24hr library with hot chocolate stations, a dessert bar, coffee machine, big comfy chairs and beanbags, blankets, dogs welcome, just people who want to spend the evening reading alone, together, peaceful, a cosy fire, plants, an indoor waterfall.
So I just now downloaded #threads to see what itโs like & seems like the knock off of twitter. I got weirded out and deactivated my account immediately ๐คฃ
Before we run to judge people who โarenโt doing enough to healโ I want to remind us all that while trauma is FREE and available to ANYone, healing is expensive AF, and not accessible to all.