A computer engineer who
loves music, photography + some physics & math :) Love, get hurt, accept your shortcomings, Live ❤️
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The secret to not being awkward is to never force conversation. Don’t try to come up with interesting things to say, don’t talk to people for the sake of talking, don’t voice opinions or ask questions to sound smart. Instead, notice your own curiosity and follow it. If you don’t have any, radiate comfort in your silence.
Only then you're back to learning them, you get the sense of job getting done fast, but to complete something you will need good understanding of the fundamentals. There is no shortcut to it.
The problem is that with the development of these new technologies, which are redefining job roles. It is become more and more challenging to keep in touch with the fundamentals, you can get a good part of the job done without knowing the basics, but after that you're stuck.
"Personality doesn't describe the kind of person you are; it describes the kind of choices you tend to make, and therefore the kinds of experiences you tend to have and the habits you tend to form." https://t.co/PlAHEcdLge
The person you want to be like is already living inside of you, thats why you take interest in certain people, they reflect an inner person that has to be integrated to your whole personality
A mentor told me this: Learn the difference between peace and avoidance. Peace is choosing not to fight battles that don’t matter. Avoidance is refusing to face the battles that do. Real wisdom is having awareness of which one you’re doing in the moment. I’ll never forget that.
Hayao Miyazaki once said that love is two people inspiring each other to live. And living is more than simply existing, it’s noticing the beauty in ordinary moments, finding wonder in the everyday, and being fully present in your life. To love someone is to awaken that sense of awe in them, to make the simple act of being alive feel meaningful. I can’t think of a better way to describe it.
Actually, one of the healthiest things a person can do is become easy to delight. Still stopping for weird clouds and dogs wearing bandanas and the smell of garlic cooking somewhere down the street.
The world already has enough cynicism. Be the person who still points at the moon.
The one skill that I immediately and badly want to attain, is to be able to not get awkward around the people with whom I have spoken to once or twice but, dont want to be around. I hate getting guilt-tripped into talking with them again, in order to avoid the awkwardness.
How do I explain? you're missing out the whole point of living this life.
No one will come to tell you, you're going to be great at this, before you start. You have to participate in life.
Try. Fail. Experience
I think it's a crime, to not dream fully, to not try to visualize what can be. You're doing injustice to the potential you have, and your loved ones. It's cowardice to simply let your days pass, not dream big, so that you don't have to face the disappointment of failure.
When you too quickly try to quickly suggest a solution to a problem someone is sharing with you , it feels like you're not interested and want to move on from the matter. Most times than not, you havent heard the details yet and dont undertsand the problem
People are probably just looking for someone to share with, someone who will understand the subtlety of the situation and the effort that has gone into it.