I don’t think purity should make a woman ashamed of having desires.
Having desires is part of being human.
The Christian question isn’t simply, “Do I have desires?”
It’s “How do I steward them in a way that honours God?”
That’s a much deeper conversation.
Some people treat celibacy like a spiritual competition.
“I’ve been celibate for 5 years.”
Okay… and?
The length of your abstinence doesn’t automatically tell me the depth of your character.
End.
Purity isn’t about becoming untouched by life.
It’s about learning to live with integrity inside real life.
Real emotions.
Real attraction.
Real relationships.
Real temptations.
Real choices.
That’s where convictions become real.