If you want your relationship to last then you have to be overly considerate of your partner's feelings. Don't brush shit off because you don't feel the same way. If it's a big deal to them then it HAS to be a big deal to you. You should expect the same courtesy in return.
This line from Atomic Habits isn't ready to leave my head:
"It doesn't make sense to continue wanting something if you're not willing to do what it takes to get it. If you don't want to live the lifestyle, then release yourself from the desire. To crave the result but not the process is to guarantee disappointment."
I want somebody who WANTS to go out with me and WANTS to spend time with me and WANTS to go adventuring and WANTS to listen to me talk about my day and ENJOYS who I am and who I want to be and I'll be the exact same way for them. That's what I want right now.
I don’t feel bad for KC, I’m sorry. You talked down on the women in the villa and laughed when Aniya was having a mental breakdown. Where was all this concern for mental health then? I’m not falling for the mental health propaganda. #loveislandusa