Men being controlled by their uncontrollable sexual desire makes them so weak in a funny but scary way to me. Being that horny will never not weird me out.
I think trysts problem is how long it takes to onboard new providers. Men want a fresh stream of new faces even if they stick with their faves. They love to browse.
@pessimistichoo1 Don’t even get me started on hair is our “crowning glory” and the patriarchal reasons we want long luxurious hair. Yeah people get very dishonest about black women and why we respond to certain traumas.
Idk, I understand the excitement to share our culture (Black, queer, etc)…
But I really need people to understand that some secrecy is for survival, not all secrecy is shame-based.