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[Nouk ♡ @anouk_voverloop]

Compleet gestoord is nog altijd beter als ronduit saai

[Maira @maira4yo]

this is the best non sexual way to turn a woman on

[✧ @cessonmute]

If you’re a man who refuses to acknowledge or accept that your lived reality is vastly different from a woman’s lived reality then I’m sorry: you are NOT a good man or a safe man.

[ຸ @fvckfemi_]

does knowing me more lead to loving me less

[‏ً @itsnwts]

My man recently just said something to me that really stuck.

He told me, “I’m not here to control you. I’m not your dad, I’m your partner. You’re free to make your own choices. Just understand that every choice has consequences. If you choose something that damages what we’ve built, that’s on you.”

He said, “I’ll always tell you when something hurts me or crosses a boundary, because that’s what healthy communication looks like. But if you keep stepping over the line after I’ve shown you where it is, then you were never really protecting us to begin with.”
And honestly, that’s what accountability in a relationship sounds like.

[COCO @TWOTIMESABITCH]

and someday, when the ego wears off, i hope you realize that everything could have been fixed with one emotionally mature conversation.

[Joshwelt @weltszzn]

The most underrated act of kindness is simply letting people be. Let them mispronounce a word, talk too much about a show they love, or get excited about something you don't quite understand. Everyone has something that lights them up, let them shine, even if it's not your thing.

[autist @litteralyme0]

overthinking really does suck because it's either I say what's on my mind and mess everything up or I say nothing and I let it bother me on the inside

[Zabby ♡ @Africanzabby]

“you’re so distant” you literally made me feel like i wasn’t important

[‏ً @omgsidewalks]

Just here to remind you guys to give up on people. They know what they are doing.

[⋆ @lowkeyalbert]

not mad. just disappointed bc i told you multiple times how i feel about those things and you still choose to do the things i told you that affect me most.

[The woman @Tarmeim]

When you hurt someone and maintain a relationship with that person, they may bring it up again. They may need more clarity. Even if you have apologized, they may bring it up. And when that happens, it is on YOU to be patient and have a discussion about it. If you hurt that person, it's not up to you to tell them when and how to heal. If you are truly sorry and care about them, you gotta deal with those uncomfortable feelings about how they're still hurting over something. These are the consequences of your actions.

[feyisayo 💸 @feyiszn]

I’ve come to terms with the fact that I really am allowed to feel however I want to feel about any situation, without anyone else having to understand why I feel the way I do.

[LLONER 🦅🪐 @eyojoel77]

A partner who updates you because they know how badly you can overthink while waiting for them is top tier.

[Maryam @hell_line0]

Some men think they're good partners just because they don't CHEAT. But they fail to realize they're inconsiderate, emotionally unavailable, insecure, lack communication skills, and make no real EFFORT to make the relationship work.

[𐌁𐌉Ᏽ 𐌕𐌉𐌌𐌉 @OrevaZSN]

Nobody can ever gaslight me into thinking I’m a bad person. I have my ways and my days, but I’m solid, and my love is real and genuine every step of the way.

[𝒶rα˚˖𓍢ִ໋ @yslmammi]

if u offer me a sincere apology & change ur behavior, I'll never bring up our past issues again. But if no apology was given and ur still repeating mistakes, u can't ask me to stop mentioning the past. The "past" is actually the present if u haven't changed.

[𐌁𐌉Ᏽ 𐌕𐌉𐌌𐌉 @OrevaZSN]

Accountability is so important to me. Nobody is perfect, but there’s no way you’re going to convince me that my reaction to your actions is the problem.

[feyisayo 💸 @feyiszn]

I won’t let anyone gaslight me into thinking intellectual mismatch is not a thing in romantic relationships. It’s not even about formal degrees or booksmarts. It shows up in things like curiousity, conversational depth, imagination, openness, and worldviews.

[air fried barbie @crankybabygorl]

personally i think people (especially women) are wasting their youth psychoanalysing men instead of being hot & having fun. they don't care about the impact of their own behaviour, why tf do you 💀