@JoeBobRayBob@RationalMale Eloquently put. Thank you
For the men who are neither young nor high status enough to manage bullet number 3, what is a reasonable threshold figure?
Or is the only answer, in your mind, to become high-status enough?
@iinangelo It didn’t even come down to Hugo, though. Let’s not place undue pressure on the kid. The Giannis to BOS deal fell through because Giannis wanted 35% of the cap for 3 years and Brad was willing to give only 30% for 2 years. This is old news.
@JoeBobRayBob@RationalMale Number 3 is virtually impossible at this point. If a man is 35-45, is he really expected to find one of the 10% (guessing) of 18-22 year-olds who are still virgins? Women who have 1-2 bodies are relatively okay. Those with 5+? the marriage almost certainly won’t work out.
Assume every woman you have ever hooked up with, loved, or dated has completely forgotten about you.
It’s better to draw confidence from the fact that you can get new women, not the ones you already had.
Dear Men,
The probability that you are being overly Cynical in your dealings with women is practically zero.
The probability that you are being overly Naive in your dealings with women is 90%+; most men are in this category.
MEN: Your ex is dead. The woman you loved no longer exists. Accept that first, or stay stuck forever. She’s not the girl who laughed with you. She’s not the girl who cried in your arms. She didn’t “change a little.” She became someone else. Women don’t simply move on. They TRANSFORM. They shed identities. Rewrite emotional history. Reframe the past to justify the present. The woman you remember exists only in your memory, not in reality. You’re not missing her.
@NoaDalzell You won’t hear me say this often, but I love this female perspective in this space
You’re absolutely right, Noa
This context is pretty cool
By the numbers, still glad he’s gone though
@DefiantLs Cleveland for the final years
Second guess would be GSW for more rings, but what’s the point? He’ll never catch MJ
He’ll never even be .500 in the Finals, let alone 100% like Jordan
Cleveland.
If for nothing else, for the story and the PR