@emirat88@adpadua_@homosexualmouse In the context of relationship searching - I completely agree, building the entirety of relationships on ethnic appearance is weird. In the context of hookups... People mention height, masculinity, and athleticism also.
@emirat88@adpadua_@homosexualmouse In the context of hookups, it's really hard to tell. The type of interaction is reductionist by its nature: top / bottom, twink / jock / bear, etc.
@adpadua_@emirat88@homosexualmouse To be honest, we don't care about each other either. Poles don't care about Germans, Germans about Poles and both of us collectively don't care about French. How is the hookup culture among us different when somebody outside Europe is involved?
@smithlxo43276 @conorkebab When you're on vacation, you can't really look for somebody for long term relationships. And they might not even be in your plans for various reasons. But you're not blind and people around you are still attractive. So, yeah... Hookups.
@emirat88@homosexualmouse What does "fetishization" mean in that context?.. Hookups are inherently shallow, and people focus on appearance. And the appearance of somebody who looks different from all your previous sexual partners is naturally interesting. What's wrong with it exactly?..