@jon_d_doee Oh. I actually thought it meant, so far you haven't caught her yet, be blind, and be happy. I didn't know it applies after you have caught her.
@jon_d_doee By all accounts, I agree with you. By another account, there is also more to the story especially from the girl's side that she's not telling the guy. But guy man should brace up, and move on. It's what it is. I have had similar situation before.
@jon_d_doe I totally understand.
And this has been my position from time immemorial. I see my younger years in your writings most times. Because I had all this thoughts then, and I have only been living it out since then.