giving your partner alone time and space would solve so many issues. some of y’all are just so obsessed with this idea of being up under someone 24/7.. suffocation makes things expire at a faster rate. relax and just be by yourself. it’s okay to maintain ur individuality.
NA’ZIYAH HARRIS WAS NOT GROWN!!!!! SHE WAS GROOMED!! HE HAD BEEN MESSING WITH HER SINCE 11 YEARS OLD!! SHE WAS NOT 11 WHEN SHE WENT MISSING, SHE WAS 13!! SO FOR 2 WHOLE YEARS HE SHAPED AND MOLDED HER MIND INTO WHAT HE WANTED TO BE!! YES HER TEXTS WERE MATURE BUT THAT’S CAUSE SHE
Women are literally socialized to fall in love; we will damn near try to fit anyone into that role.
Men are socialized to… not lol plus, they gain nothing from it in a sense.
When women find a man, they find rest. Weight off our shoulders because he’s here to provide and protect and solve all of our problems.. But when men fall in love, they gain a liability. Now they have yet ANOTHER thing to be responsible for, provide for, think for, stick their neck out for, etc. Shit don’t sound fun at all and yet, they do it anyway because they love you.