btw abandoning your friend who’s in an abusive relationship because you need to “protect your energy” and “establish boundaries” and you “can’t respect her choices” is EXACTLY what the abuser relies on. we are in an empathy recession.
Nobody likes you when you're depressed.
Plain and simple. We can talk all day about mental health and how important it is, but the moment you are depressed, people start to distance themselves. They see you as negative, a burden, and someone too heavy to handle.
one thing... I CAN NOT STAND.... is being ignored. if you're busy, say so. if you are not in the mood to talk, say so. if you are done with me, SAY SO. COMMUNICATE.
Honestly can’t stand being without my fp. I would rather sleep the whole day til he comes home from work instead of feeling the ache of missing him and I literally do.
A lot of my hurt & trauma comes from never receiving apologies for the things that people do & say to me, yet I have to be the person to always take accountability & apologize in every situation. It hurts to feel like I’m not worth an apology in ANY situation.