Embrace the fact that you'll work a lot without seeing instant results
Everything takes time bro
Lonely nights, sitting on the sidelines seeing others partying, weekends of hustling while others have fun, saving cash instead of spending it on bullshit.
Accept the grind.
Imagine being so stupid
That you sit all day long and complain about what's happening in the world, the government, your boss
When you can get money and just move wherever the fuck you want on the globe and just live whatever lifestyle you choose
Solution to everything - CASH
Everything is TEMPORARY
Don't get too excited when things are going your way. The hype will fade, sooner or later. Keep working and don't let it go to your head.
At the same time, don't stay depressed when you've lost. Better times will come inevitably.
Learn life.
You MUST force yourself to be high energy
Training, having a GF, having businesses, having hoes on the side, having fun, being active on social media, making friends etc.
All require work. If you get tired after 8h of work you won't be able to make no moves.
Learn life.
Successful people love to work, the process, the daily tasks
They enjoy this more than they enjoy their vices, vacations, partying and relaxing
Can't be top 1% if you get more satisfaction from hedonism than you get from being productive and getting shit done
Learn life.
Being a lone wolf > Having a crew with losers
It's actually better to operate alone rather than having idiots around who distract you, waste time, work jobs
But, after a certain point, you can't evolve without mentors and a strong network, friends that are printing cash.
FASTEST WAY TO GET RICH:
1. Find older and wealthier individuals
2. Make them like you and trust you
3. Apply the knowledge your hear without thinking too much
0 ego, just shut up and execute
Arrogance, having your own ideas and approach, innovating - that comes LATER.
Until you get to a good level you shouldn't care about drinking, cheating, nightclubs, weekends, vacations
Get a normal girlfriend and only talk to the people you work with and the ones you train with
- 1 GF
- Friends with hustlers & ppl who train
- MONEY
That's it.
Don't let life defeat you bro
Don't be the type of person who had big dreams and expectations when he was younger and then, after a few setbacks, started becoming like the individuals he used to hate. Maintain your naivety and delusion.
You're a few moves away from winning.
There are 3 types of men
1. Good at nothing (useless individual, loser, time waster)
2. Good at something (ex. good at making money)
3. GOOD AT LIFE (Money, strong body, combat ability, connections, charisma, women, funny)
Learn life.
vice versa the guys who live it up their 20s only to find they’ve done nothing end up in a similar scenario with sights set on lofty goals that are similarly out of their reach
there are a lot of guys with money that don’t know how to enjoy the fruits of their labor and therefore realize money isn’t ultimately what they wanted
they then envy their younger selves for not enjoying youth while they ran the rat race but it becomes too little too late
There's 2 ways in which you can motivate yourself:
1. Thinking of the bright future ahead of you - the lifestyle you'll have, the power and how you'll use it, the attention, the cash
2. Thinking of the situations and people who treated you unfairly and orchestrating cruelty.
Don't even attempt to change your nature or how you're wired
Imagine Jordan trying to act too humble
Or Conor trying to be disciplined like Khabib - would never work
Find what's special in you and AMPLIFY it.
What KEEPS you successful once you made some money is the ability to refuse
Refusing drugs, degeneracy
Refusing to associate for too long with snakes and hoes
Refusing to overspend in order to impress idiots
If you engage in these things you risk losing all the progress.
Ideal girlfriend (mentally):
Not very smart
Completely obsessed
Dark humour
Highly submissive
Adopts my ideologies
Knows when to be quiet
A little naive
Non-argumentative
Eager to please
Emotionally dependent (but not clingy)
Likes being controlled
Mildly possessive
Loyal to the extreme
Innocent but corruptible
Fears losing you
Knows she is beneath you (and likes it)
Lives for your praise
Finds beauty in suffering for you
Low maintenance
Worships you with a quiet intensity
Quotes like "ATTRACT DON'T CHASE"
Sound amazing on paper but have 0 practicality
People like 50 Cent were chasing executives from labels to hand them out CD's with their music so they get noticed & signed
Think if you just stay there "attracting" you'll get what you want? NO
Winning is about multiple positive events happening at the same time.
Like bad things happen all at once, good things do to
Your time will come, if you plotted and worked for it, and everything will occur in a way that feels like you're favoured by the gods.
Learn life.
There's people who help you become stronger, and people who make you weaker
There's habits that help you advance in the rankings, and habits that sabotage you
The more you can replace the negative with elements that might help you improve, the closer you are to winning big.