there’s a strange relief in knowing it’s over. no more waiting, no more guessing, no more bargaining with yourself. just silence. painful at first, then peaceful.
i saw a quote that said, "if you don't clear your misunderstandings in time, they become the reason for permanent distance." and that's realest shit ever.
my therapist said this to me, and it hit me like a brick “if it drains you, it’s not for you. love, friendships, jobs, anything meant for you will nourish you, not exhaust you. 1/2
the intimacy of sleeping together, but not in a s*xual way. feeling the warmth of their body in a cool room. their hands hugging you tightly. sleepy half-kisses. feeling safe. feeling warm. brushing their hair. closing your eyes again. pulling closer. falling asleep peacefully.
Your obsession with trying to understand why something happened to you is what keeps you in a constant loop of overanalysing. You pick apart the situation, the person, the reasons, and then circle back to it again. This is happening because you’re struggling to accept what has actually happened. You’re struggling to sit with the reality that it broke you, that it hurt you, and you’re trying to avoid the feelings that come with that realisation.
Grief adalah hal yang paling membingungkan. Ever heard of stages of grief? It is not even stages. It is more like a circle. No end. Just cope. Once you have it, it stays with you forever
grief.
even years after they’re gone, it still finds its way back to you. ppl won't understand the regrets or how certain places become unbearable because of the memories tied to them
you once had love. now you’ve lost its owner. it leaves you both confused and frustrated