It takes money to make money, put the lil money yall got together. Pick whoever has the actual plug, let him eat for two months. THEN they can help you, you need a nest egg
In all actuality you don’t win when you cheat, you may get off a couple times but nothing about that signifies anything worth having. Social media pushin that shit heavy but the real prize is having a family / partner who you’re unconditionally loyal to & willing to show up for.