Unhealed trauma makes you hold onto people longer than you should and tolerate sh*t you don't deserve because you lack self-worth and don't want to feel alone. Healing makes you realize some people don't deserve to be in your life — no matter how much you love them.
Don't let people consume you. They ghost you? Respect the dead and never disturb them again. Silent treatment? Enjoy your quiet, peaceful time. They no longer want to ride with you? Enjoy your solo drive. They betray you? Move them from your inner circle to your outer circle.
Para ser bondadoso no hay que tener un motivo escondido. Moverse con bondad por el simple hecho de serlo es la más linda sensación aunq a muchos les incomode. Esa incomodidad o desconfianza es del otro....no tuya, q eso no detenga la bondad.
I have no energy to hate any person, I literally have no room in my heart to carry that sh*t around. I either love you, wish you well, or hope you heal.
Unhealed trauma will make you hold onto people longer than you should and tolerate sh*t you don't deserve because you lack self-worth and don't want to feel alone. Healing makes you realize some people don't deserve access to your life – no matter how much you love them.
"No hay luz sin sombras ni plenitud mental sin imperfecciones. La vida requiere para su realización, no, perfección, sino plenitud.
Sin imperfección, no hay progreso ni crecimiento".
Carl Gustav Jung
📷Ferdinando Scianna