If You're pregnant right now or have a kid already, please don't let anybody make You think Your kid ruined Your life. Yes it's hard, yes there'll be sleepless nights, things might take a little longer to get together, but You can still do it with Your baby on Your back. I don't care what anybody says, I know a lot of people with Kids doing better than those without Kids. People like to make it seem like having Kids means Your life is over, but actually it's just getting started. Your Kid will make You wanna push to be better because You know You got a little one looking up to You. Kids are a blessing at the end of the day.