Just because you don’t look like somebody who you think is attractive doesn’t mean you aren’t attractive. Flowers are pretty, but so are sunsets and they look nothing alike.
Who cares if the same old people keep calling us the same old names based on the same old stand? What else is new? Jesus was called all sorts of names. He didn’t waste time refuting critics. Let’s just do our best to live and love as He did and let people label us what they like.
Hearing the truth about yourself is scary because it can reveal such ugliness. But without self-confrontation, we will never be liberated from the lies we believe.