J

Polyamorous 40-ish tech person. He/Him.

[J @apolyguy]

@DallaHalla Oof 😿 It’s always a gut punch… they bring so much to our lives

[J @apolyguy]

@TheDevilHistory

[J @apolyguy]

@ELByrne1 I definitely think it’s a thing!

[J @apolyguy]

@Bryaniereadsmut You’re awesome and what you share is amazing and beautiful. Thank you for sharing yourself with us.

[J @apolyguy]

Sigh. I fucked up. I knew I was doing it as I did it. But I did it anyway. 😔

I’m disappointed in myself. Now to figure out what I do from here.

[J @apolyguy]

@lustitude Domination. Orgasm control. Impact play. Punishments.

And the prevention is it’s only fun for me if the person really is into them.

Luckily the new person I’ve started seeing enjoys all of the above.

[J @apolyguy]

When your nesting partner is like “I’m tired. Do you have date night tomorrow night (with your other partner)? No? Good. Just want to know how I’m getting screwed. I mean, I know you are either way in the good way. But I want to know which way I am.”

We both laughed. 😂😂😂

[J @apolyguy]

@BluesXplosnMan Johnny Cash’s cover of Hurt https://t.co/I9ikzvsUgF

[J @apolyguy]

@DallaHalla I mean, clearly 🤩😈

One idea from a friend was just going for a drive along something kind of scenic which I thought was potentially fun!

[J @apolyguy]

Anyone been doing any fun Covid cautious date nights?

[J @apolyguy]

@Knotnerd1 @YoginiGeeky Best drug ❤️

[J @apolyguy]

@DallaHalla Stay away from the axe murderers please

[J @apolyguy]

@SpaceDigitalist I’d say that it may be even more important to understand and celebrate personal achievements in the midst of the world being a garbage fire. You’re not trying to diminish the latter with acknowledging the former.

[J @apolyguy]

@DallaHalla @SpaceDigitalist @shadowbunny5 It’s funny. I’ve previously had good luck with okcupid, met my current nesting partner on tinder, and the new person I’m seeing I met on feeld. So I think they all can work depending on timing and location. (And all looking for poly folx)

[J @apolyguy]

@SpaceDigitalist @DallaHalla Yayyyyy! Those are probably the absolute best happy poly moments for me

[J @apolyguy]

Spent yesterday evening playing board games with my nesting partner, new partner (need to come up with good descriptor?), and her fiancé. My heart grew three sizes. Lucky to be able to spend time with such amazing people 🥰 #polyamory #notagrinchreally

[J @apolyguy]

@DallaHalla Hooray!!! 🎉 Glad you survived it

[J @apolyguy]

I definitely invested time and energy with both talking expectations, fears, etc. Polyamory is amazing but you’ve got to do some of the emotional labor for it to work.

[J @apolyguy]

I always struggle with finding the right time for partners to meet as it always seems to have some amount of stress for me. I want to do it early to help everyone feel comfortable but also don’t want too early as some things don’t last so why use that energy

[J @apolyguy]

But had new person I’m seeing meet my nesting partner today in a lightweight and low pressure way and it seemed to go well for all. So yay!