I know those negative thoughts inside your head are loud and blocking them about is easier said than done, but you're not alone in that superstar, each and everyone of you are so much more than those thoughts and you should all be proud of yourselves despite the hardships
tbh if your femme HAS to be shorter & skinnier than you for you to feel like a butch than youre not much of a butch to begin with
tall femmes & fat femmes deserve love & perpetuating the idea that masculine equals tall & muscular and feminine equals petite & short is weird asf