@graceandfeminty Yes, the problem with them is, they're not able to communicate it properly with their family members and husbands. They rather start acting as if they actually hate their kids, which many of them don't. So others misinterpret their behaviour and call them monster.
@Cluffalo Chastity is also about preserving yourself for the right person, husband or wife. Men expect their wives to be chaste at the time of marriage but for women it's not like this, women are okay even if he has kids as you said, so women don't really care about chastity.
@graceandfeminty Yes, it could have a negative impact and might cause him to overthink. But if he's not like typical men, and you know him well obviously, you could consider bringing it up in a lighthearted way.
Why did your friend ask you to tell him though, what was her reasoning?
@graceandfeminty I see. I think if he appears again, when you're out at some random place, and tries to get your attention or talks, then it's definitely necessary to tell your husband about this.
But if it doesn't happen, then just forget about it, no point of overthinking.
@Peacemaker811 Such a beautiful way to look at this, but when you get rejected a few times or have bad experiences, that somehow discourages and makes you think "it'll happen when it'll have to happen, as per God's will" and you stop even trying.
@Cluffalo True but dating apps are hell for an average man. So many men get discouraged and hopeless after spending some time on those apps. You're not human on those apps, you're a commodity. It works only if you're rich or extraordinarily good looking.
@Cluffalo Agree, it's all about hit and trial and not getting affected by rejection.
Although the redpill dudes' argument is "women only go for top 30 to 40 percent men" so the rest aren't getting dates.